.“When it’s over, leave. Don’t continue watering a dead flower” … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
.“When it’s over, leave. Don’t continue watering a dead flower” … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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We really don’t understand what the concept of change means for our lives.
Sometimes the change might appear as a desire … but sometimes it can be … a must.
And it becomes a must … cause you live in a “dead” reality … that does not make sense anymore.
A dear friend of mine … married by many years … was very deep in love with … another lady.
His marriage was ruined … but he was so happy because of the new love story.
And it was an amazing story.
He understood that everything he had with his wife … was a relationship dead by years.
But the funny thing was that later on … the same happened with the relationship he had with the other lady.
Something broke between them also.
A great love story … became almost without realizing a toxic relationship.
He could not believe it.
Tried to save the marriage … but failed..
Tried to save the relationship with the mistress and failed again.
Even if he knew the truth … he could not accept that he was the “dead flower”.
He was not feeling alive for years … and the new lady from his life … was only created the illusion of happiness, cause someone that is not feeling alive … cannot be happy.
The root of the problems with those ladies … was his lost soul … but is much easier to pretend that you continue “watering” … something that represent a “dead flower” … by a long, long time.
Yes … sometimes the time for change has come … but as for the case of my friend … the change might be something totally different that it might look like.
The guy … had to change … not the ladies from his life … but his soul … leave the way he used to be and start showing his beautiful side.
… and the truth is that the change is only a decision!
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